Saturday, September 10, 2016

Blog-Tember- Day 10 A day in the life

     I have always thought it would be fun to do one of these posts.  A "reality TV junkie" at heart, I love having a glimpse into the people's lives.  Here's what a (somewhat) typical day looks like at our house.  

This was how we spent our day last Wednesday.

Here are a few disclaimers before we begin.

     My house is an absolute wreck.  We went to visit family over Labor Day weekend, and we are still trying to recover.  Tim is in the middle of two DIY projects that have left our house a little topsy-turvy (living room mantle and new bathroom flooring).  If you're wondering why there's rubbing alcohol and mouthwash in our dining room, that's why.  Ha.  #ifyoudontlaughyoullcry

I am not going to make the photos "artsy."  No white backgrounds.  No soft lighting or glossy filters.  This is as real as it gets, guys.  Ain't nobody got time for that.

Try not to let my glamorous life make you feel bad about your own.  Not everyone can pull off this lifestyle.  Five o'clock hors d'oeuvres and crystal chandeliers.  It's ok.  Really. 

     I love my life and wouldn't change a thing.  Everyday, I pray I'm worthy of my calling as wife and stay at home mom.  I hope my gratitude and joy is apparent in the coming post.  No matter how uneventful it may seem.

      As I thought about this post, I immediately worried I wouldn't come off as "busy" enough.  Being a stay at home mom is hard, and being a working mom is hard.  I think it's all give and take.  Everyday, I'm learning that my worth and security lies in who I am in The Lord and not how often my kitchen is clean.  Lord help us all.  

Enjoy. :) 

8:20- Ella and I are up.  This is late for us, but you'll hear no complaints from me.

     We are slow-starts in the morning.  Ella and I snuggle for a bit while she drinks her milk. We sit in silence, and I mentally prepare for the day.  It's a nice few minutes together...and ends up being one of my favorite parts of the day.  

     Ella eventually perks up a bit.  I make us bagels & cream cheese, grapes and a LARGE cup of coffee for mama.  We catch up on Bachelor in Paradise.  Ella is rooting for Grant & Lace.  I'm still on the fence. No one is surprised about Nick & Jen, although, as a courtesy, we feign shock.  

     While we finish breakfast, I mess around online a bit.  I  add to Ella's Amazon Wishlist for her first birthday and take a glance at my daily planner.   I use the last 15 or so minutes before Ella's first nap to start kind of getting my life together (haha). I throw on some clothes and put my contacts in. Next, I collect dishes from various parts of the house, load the dishwasher and wash the high chair tray.

     Around 10:30- Ella goes down for her first nap.  I decide to use this time to do some "administrative tasks" ((Read: blog, check Facebook, and balance our checking account)).  The dining room table is driving me crazy, so I take 10 minutes to clean it off, cut some flowers from the yard, and contemplate making another cup of coffee (I don't  make one in favor of drinking my tumbler of water. Good choice, mama...who am I fooling? We both know I'll have a 2nd cup before the day is through).  

     One of my goals for the month is to re-evaluate our finances in an attempt to pay off some of our debt.  I grab my "financial calendar" and get ready to dive in.  I also preheat the oven for lunch and text a few of my pals...good deals on zulily...a tomato soup recipe.  Like I said above, it's all very glamorous. ;)

     ELLA IS UP!  That nap time goes way too fast!  As I mentioned above, we were out of town for the weekend, so our grocery situation is seriously lacking.  Around 1:30, I make some random chicken and green beans I found in the freezer.  Ella also snacks on some oranges.  I'm disappointed because the green beans were supposed to have almonds in them, and I thought that sounded SUPER exciting, only to open the package and discover they were...sans almonds.  

Still tired! 

     The TV plays in the background while I try to finish up the work I'm doing at the table.  I'm finally crunch the numbers long enough that I'm able to set a goal to pay off two of our small debts within 6 months. Ella discovers how to change the TV stereo from "cable" to "DVD."  She does not know how to turn it back again.  This presents a problem, as you can imagine.  

     Around 2:45, we head to Kroger.  Our diaper situation is getting SERIOUS, and I need to pick up a few things for the week.  We are thrilled to discover they've put mums out and even more excited to see their priced pretty reasonably.  I make a mental note to pick some up next weekend.  

     We're home by around 3:30. We literally live within walking distance of the store, yet by the time I pull onto our street, Ella is asleep.  My poor, cute and tiny baby.  I EASE her into the house for her second (mini) nap and focus on putting groceries away.  Someone has pooped on the kitchen floor.  Process of elimination reveals it's either Scarlett or Noel.  After a lengthy interrogation, neither one of them will fess up...nor will they throw the other under the bus.  The loyalty is strong in these two.  Poop be gone.  While I'm working in the kitchen, I discover the almonds that were supposed to go in my green beans.  Bummer. Mystery solved.  Maybe they'll be good with oatmeal?  

     While Ella naps, I decide to take the time to do my devotions.  I am bad about throwing it into my day "here and there" and really need to focus on getting into a routine.  It is always too easy for my quiet time to be the FIRST thing that gets pushed out of the way when life gets busy.  I read a bit out of Lara Casey's book. In the current chapter, she asks us to focus on a verse that speaks TRUTH to the devil's lies.  I look up verses about having confidence and write down Hebrews 4:16 . I smile as I make the connection between the verse and my birthday (April 16th).  

     I also crack open a Diet Coke and enjoy an apple alone at the table.  Tim bought me some really yummy Amish Peanut Butter spread while we were in Nashville over the weekend.  I practically lick the plate.  

Ella wakes up a little after four. Not a great nap, but we'll take it.  We have what will only be referred to as "an incident." I make a note in my calendar to shampoo the carpets.  Ella gets a bath.  

     I have to bathe her in the sink because our bathroom is still torn apart from the work Tim did on the flooring (our other bathroom only has a shower).  It's so much easier to do it in the sink, and Ella loves how the water pours over her head.  At the moment, we're both pretty content.  

     I let the dogs out and go to check on my container garden.  It's slowly winding down, but I'm enjoying the last few veggies we have left.  Ella follows closely behind.  (She's usually not allowed on the laundry room floor...this was a big deal for her).  

     The time is now 4:45, and we're both starting to get a little antsy.  I am feeling discouraged by the fact that I've gotten very few TANGIBLE "chores" done today, and Ella is running on fumes (gosh darn the 'mini' nap).  Sometimes this mom-life is about working behind the scenes.  It will be great when we're paying off our car loan a year early because of the work I've done today, but all I can see are the dishes in the sink.  You know...I struggle when there is no clear "before and after."   Ella got some milk on the straps of her car seat.  I desperately need to wipe it all down.  That task is really important, but it's not something anyone off the street would actually NOTICE.  I'm learning to appreciate "my work" in all forms, but it's still hard.  
     We both go to her room, and I start slowly tidying so I can take pictures for an upcoming blog post.  I am getting ready to transfer over her 9 month clothes to her 12 month wardrobe.  It's overwhelming.  She has some birthday presents I need to put away.  I fold clothes.  I make stacks and piles.  Ella continues to fuss.  I snap a few photos and crack a few jokes, "Aww...did we poke the bear?"  

She finds this less and less amusing as time goes on.  

I power through.  Today was the day I was going to document for a blog post.  I HAVE to get some things accomplished.  This place is a wreck. WHAT AM I DOING WITH MY LIFE?!?!?!  

Mild panic attack.  Fuss fuss.  Fold clothes. Pick up toys. Wipe down furniture.  

And then The voice of The Lord and Sweet Lara Casey HITS ME. 

"Do what matters most."  

What matters most?  I am home. I am here. With my baby.  My tired, fussy baby who didn't take much of a nap and just wants to be held.  Sometimes a girl just needs her mom.  (LORD KNOWS I STILL DO)!

I relent.  We Surrender.  

I pick up my baby and snuggle her in close.  

Ok. This. THIS is what MATTERS MOST.  Everything else can wait.  

While we're snuggling, Tim calls and offers to bring home dinner.  This almost NEVER happens.  He must have sensed my distress. Ha.  

He gets home around 5:30 with dinner.  We eat pretty quickly, play with our girl and then put her to bed. 

     We spend the rest of the evening on the couch watching Fringe together before it gets booted off Netflix. I end the night with some decaf coffee, a little chocolate, a shower and some quality time with my guy.  Sweet morning, rough afternoon, perfect night.  

Love and spur-of-the-moment-boneless-chicken-wings, 

Thursday, September 8, 2016

Blog Tember Day 8 - Room Tour

This month, I'm participating in Bailey's Blogtember Challenge.  She asked us to post a room tour.  Today, I'm featuring Ella's room.  

     So...this is my first "room tour" post.  We have black-out curtains in the nursery so Ella can sleep better.  I feel like they made the lighting a bit weird/hard to edit...but at the same time...they're like, "We're BLACK OUT CURTAINS.  What more do you want from us?"  They definitely could use  a good steam iron and some new hooks...but that's pretty low on the priority list, as you can imagine. ;)  

      Ella's room is my favorite room in the house.  I put a ton of work into it...I hope you enjoy it and possibly get some ideas for your own tiny one's room.  We actually spend a lot of time in here, so I'm glad I invested the energy into personalizing it. 

Just FYI...decoration-wise...almost everything is either vintage, handmade by family or came from Michael's or Hobby Lobby.

     The first thing you see when you walk in the room is the crib.  I like that at night, I can crack open the  door just barely and check on our girl.  I also love that her face is the first thing I see when I come get her from a nap!  The gallery wall behind her crib also makes me happy just looking at it.  My dad cut the wooden "Ella" letters for me.  I pretty much made or pieced together everything else.  We found the little bluebird in Tim's grandparents' old barn.  I honestly built the whole theme around that bird...I've held onto it for years! 

All of Ella's bedding came from Babies R Us.  You can find it online here.  Cocker Spaniel not included.  

This is my favorite little nook.  It's so cozy, and we spend a lot of time here. The cart and lamp are from IKEA.  I covered the lamp myself with fabric from Hobby Lobby.  The chair was given to us, second hand from a sweet friend.  I love that she rocked her babies in it, and now I'm rocking mine.

I framed pictures from a vintage children's book and used scrapbook paper as a background.  The frames are from Hobby Lobby.

Changing Table-  We bought the dresser from an unfinished furniture place.  Tim stained it all for Ella, and it's perfect.  The drawers hold her current clothes, diapers, and her clothes for the following season.  The bottom drawer has extra or "overflow" items like hand sanitizer and all the "baby proofing" items we're slowly starting to use (outlet covers, cabinet locks, etc.).

     The striped basket is from Target.  Inside, I have diapers, sanitizer, rash cream, the nose frita, and a forehead thermometer.     Someone gave us the bird statue as a wedding gift, which I think is really sweet.   

The rocking horse belonged to Tim's mom when she was a child.  About 3/4 of the animals were mine when I was little.  A couple of them were gifts.  The rest are from IKEA or jellycat.  Tim won her the little, green monster at a festival down the street over the summer.  So sweet. This is my view whenever I am rocking her in the chair (opposite wall).  It's nice to put my feet up and see all her animal friends.  

The rack is just a plant holder we found at Lowe's and spray painted white. As Ella gets older, we'll have to make them more accessible, but for right now, keeping them out of Scarlett's mouth has been the key.  With the help of my mother in law, I made the bird garland from a digital file I found on Etsy. 

     As a former teacher, I needed a place to store all my old children's books.  Thanks for loaning me some shelf space, Ella.  Her "piggy bank" is just a mason jar covered with a chalkboard label sticker.  The little squirrel belonged to Tim's family.  It sat on top of the fridge in his first apartment.  We've long since misplaced the acorns that go with it.  The little, green T came from Tim's room when he was small.

     My mother in law painted this gorgeous piece per my request.  She did a fantastic job, and I love that it will grow with Ella.  I could still see this in her room, even as a teenager.  The dollhouse was built by my dad, and I played in it when i was little. It has made great storage for her headbands, blankets, and little finger puppets.  She loves digging through the baskets and looking at all her "treasures." He made her "name train" as well.  Last, every girl needs a framed photo of her dogs.  ;) ((Also...I love having the touch-light up there so I can see her quickly when I want to obsess over if she's breathing at night. You understand. )) 

I made a collage of items similar to what's in Ella's nursery. How cute is that bluebird pitcher?  And...I think I just found the bedding if our next baby is a girl. Ha.

Bluebird Creamer     Picture Frame     Basket     Bedding     Vintage Birdhouse      Vintage Bird Book 

Love, a hammer and nails,

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Blog-Tember Day 7- Five Things that Bring me Joy

     This month, I'm participating in Bailey's Blog-tember Series.  Today's prompt asked for five things that bring me joy.  I'm a list-girl, so this one was right up my alley.  It was honestly hard to narrow it down.  Hooray!  (I actually had to take "Skinny Pop Popcorn" off the list...ha).  

My Container Garden-   Now that Labor Day is over and we are heading towards fall, I'm getting ready to "close up shop."  I'm pretty sad about it, but we got a lot of great sweet banana peppers, cherry tomatoes, and a few green peppers this season.  I loved cooking with my own  basil and cilantro as well. I learned a lot, and I'm so so glad I chose containers over raised beds this year- much less work and easier to water.  

Being a SAHM- I could shout this from the rooftops.  I can honestly say I am thankful everyday for the opportunity to stay home with our girl.  I love being a wife and mom. My new "job" has been the answer to many, many years of prayer.  

Not always a morning person...bless her little heart.  

My Cleaning Schedule-  (see here) This probably sounds a little obsessive/crazy.  I'd love to post more about this later, but in short, I work on one room a day, and it helps keep me from being super overwhelmed.  My house is not "perfect" by any stretch of the imagination, but on days where I feel very, "WHAT IS HAPPENING TO MY LIFE!?!?!" having a schedule (sort of) keeps me sane.  I also find I enjoy being "out" more with Ella because I'm not as worried about chores/daily productivity.  As long as I worked on my scheduled room(s) that day, I don't feel as bad if nothing else gets house-wise gets accomplished.  

My Nightly Routine (Coffee/ Netflix/ Something Sweet)- Once Ella goes to bed, I feel like my day finally starts winding down. I love to settle in with some good (or horrible) TV...haha... a cup of decaf coffee and a little something sweet like these homemade energy bites.  

What list is compete without Ella Marie? -  She is my favorite, favorite, favorite and there aren't enough words in the universe to describe her cuteness, sweetness, and the joy she brings to our hearts.  She is joy personified.  

Love and you really need to try the popcorn, 

Sunday, September 4, 2016

Blog-Tember- Day 4 "Currently"

Reading... Make it Happen by Lara Casey (I'm like...2 years late on this one- ha)
Playing... the role of  "Laundry Fairy" today 
Watching... HGTV on mute (read: multi-tasking)
Trying... to make a plan for baby-proofing the house...a little overwhelming 
Cooking... all the fun "Buzzfeed Tasty" recipes I have saved on Facebook 
Eating... Skinny Pop Popcorn- Delicious + not junky! 
Drinking...Vanilla Caramel Coffee with lots o' creamer 
Calling... my mom for no reason, as usual...haha
Texting...people pictures of my cute kid (also per usual) 
Pinning... Ideas for Ella's First Birthday Party 
Going... to get a workout in today 
Loving...the new tile Tim laid in our bathroom 
Hating...the mess that comes with home construction projects  
Discovering... that functioning as a SAHM while also trying to accomplish some personal goals = ORGANIZATION & PLANNING!!!!!
Thinking...about how I need to start drinking more water during the day 
Feeling... the need to find a (house)work/life balance 
Hoping... to mulch and plant some new flowers (mums?) within the next few weeks (yay)! 
Listening... to the utility workers outside (installing a natural gas line on our street) 
Celebrating... the freedom that comes with beginning to wean Ella (or I'm bawling my eyes decide) 
Smelling.... My coffee creamer...might make another cup! 
Ordering...stickers to help organize my planner (to cook, clean, blog, etc.). lucky stars that Ella is taking a good nap today! 
Considering...joining a gym...I love my current at-home program but think I'd benefit from some "me" time on the treadmill as well
Starting... to get excited about fall! Powersheets...even if I have to do them at 1am...haha. 

Love and this was fun, 

Saturday, September 3, 2016

Blog-Tember Day 3, Summer Favorites

Summer Favorites

     It's so hard to pick just a few favorite summertime memories.  I feel like this season, Ella has really been able to interact with the world around her and actually play and explore.  It is the most fun EVER!  

     We had several invites to The Petting Zoo that traveled around to local libraries this summer.  Lots of love for our little goat, llama, chicken, and duck friends.  DON'T FORGET THE MINI HORSE!!! 

      My Girlfriends and I went to see The Dixie Chicks Live. Definitely a good show.  I haven't been to a concert in ages.  I felt 33 again. ;)  We actually got rained on, but it just added to the nostalgia, as weird as that sounds.  Fun memories.  I'm gonna miss these open-air concert days come this winter!  

We celebrated my mom's recent retirement with a cook-out/ camp out at a local park. Other than swimming, it was the first time Ella has really spent a significant amount of time playing outside. It was also the first time she REALLY watched and interacted with my sister's kids. (notice in the picture, she's eating crumbs from Lucas's little hand...haha).    My parents have a pool, so the cake is decorated with all the cousins/grandkids swimming.  It turned out super cute, I think.  (I wish I could take credit for it...haha). 

My Girlfriends and I went to see The Downton Abbey Exhibit at a museum downtown.  Many of the costumes from the show were on display, and it was really neat to see them in person.  We are all huge fans of the show and were sad to see it end.  History buffs unite!  

SWIMMING!  My parents have a pool in their backyard.  Ella loves to swim.  This summer, we swam like it was OUR JOB!!!  :)  It makes me tired/hungry just thinking about it!  Anyone else get tired and hungry around water?  Yes. Please!  Ella does, too.  Exhibit A.  

     As I'm looking back, I'm realizing how much I love my pals.  We've spent a good portion of the summer together, and I don't mind it one bit (they've been mentioned in the past like...3 memories above).   Meeting up for some Chick-fil-a and a trip to the splash pad is one of our favorite summer traditions.  Stay out of Ella's way! I'm sure people thought I was being pretty cavalier with her little face getting in the water, but the truth is, she doesn't mind it one bit.  Getting water in her face like it ain't no thang!  What a brave baby.  

We just returned from a trip to Wildwood, NJ with my family.  It was Ella's first trip to the ocean, and she loved every minute of it!  Highlights include eating a week's worth of Polish Water Ice, visiting The Cape May Zoo, Swinging at the playground, and playing in the ocean.   

I'm a little sad to see summer go.  As a former teacher, I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around the coming fall season.  My brain has yet to register that I'm not going back to still feels like summer to me.  With enough Pumpkin Spice Lattes, it's sure to sink in. ;)   Autumn, here we come.